Where's my Ham Rebbie? And what have you done with Fred?

Thanksgiving for several years was always at Rebbie's house. (Her hubby Fred could cook the best ham in the whole world) Suddenly, this tradition came to a halt, and Thanksgiving last year was,and this year will be at Kalem and Jessica's house. I had noticed that Fred was losing weight and looking kinda pale, but I just blamed it all on the stress of being a lawyer. Now, I'm not so certain! These last pictures of me and Rebbie with her hubby Fred appear somewhat suspicious! I sure miss that HAM!